This month's theme is reward and recognition. Constance Robinson, one of HRA's consultants in Charlottetown, shares an early lesson...
As a young employee (we won't talk about how many years ago that would have been), I was keen to work hard earn that proverbial 'pat on the back'. However, I worked with an organization that did not communicate well with its employees. Long hours and high standards were the norm. So I toiled away and learned to assume that 'no news is good news'.
Then one day I heard the words, "You are doing great". I was pleased to hear it. It came from a person in the firm I liked and respected. But the words rang hollow -- literally. I was trotting up a concrete stairwell between floors in the office when a secretary of my supervisor was coming down. We stopped for a moment on the landing between floors to catch up on the progress of some files. As we were about to each carry on to our destinations, she lowered her voice as though she was sharing a state secret and said, "You know you are doing great. He talks all the time about the good work you do. We are really impressed." I was a bit puzzled, but smiled politely and whispered back, "Why thank you, that is so nice to hear." Then we went on our way.
While the words echoed in my ears (for even whispers ring in a stairwell), I couldn't help but wonder why my supervisor could not have said those words to me directly, and why I was told in a stairwell where no one else would ever hear. The lessons from that brief conversation in a stairwell are threefold:
1. Second-hand praise is not as effective as hearing it directly from the person who can speak to it.
2. Praise in secret robs it of its full effect. Praise is something to share.
3. While it is important to praise only what is worthy of praise, it is not something to be hoarded. The recipient deserves enough information to know what exactly warranted those words, and that it is possible to build on that success to continue to be worthy of the recognition given.
These lessons are fundamental to sound management practices we encourage in managers. Performance management is not about breaking people down -- it is about building them up. In human resources, we advise managers to apply this philosophy in the workplace -- but what are we doing to apply this philosophy within our profession?
On Thursday, October 4, Charlottetown is hosting the Atlantic Canada Human Resource Awards. This is every HR professional and business manager's opportunity to praise our colleagues by supporting the event with our attendance. The nominations are by people who know first hand the quality of the work of the nominees. The nomination and award process is an opportunity to praise the nominees in the presence of their peers. Best of all, the gala event, hosted at the elegant Delta Prince Edward hotel, with a delightful dinner, and superb entertainment by Hedgerow is a wonderful means of celebrating the achievements of our peers in the profession.
Let's not praise each other in stairwells. Join your colleagues in Charlottetown with good food, great music and entertainment and live the advice we give our clients.